Carnegie Mellon psychologist Brooke Feeney, an associate professor of psychology at Carnegie Mellon University, captured first place at the inaugural Mind Gym Academic Awards in London for a ground-breaking study on a phenomenon she calls “the dependency paradox,” cultivating a healthy recognition of the need for dependence in relationships.
Feeney, a social psychologist, received the award based on a paper that appeared in the February issue of Personality and Social Psychology. She conducted two studies in which people were tracked over a 6-month period to see how well they could accomplish goals they set for themselves. Individuals achieved more on a personal level, cultivated a greater sense of independence, and took more risks if they were in supportive relationships where dependence was permitted..
“Dependence is often seen as a sign of weakness,” explains Feeney. “Based my research on attachment theory, reliance on a significant other is an important part of human nature. It provides a secure base from which partners can go out into the world.”
Overdependence is not encouraged, Feeney adds. “In my research, the opposite happens in dependent situations. If you respond to someone’s need, they will be more independent and self-sufficient.”
Feeney believes the dependency paradox has important implications for counseling. Other research suggests that the theory works in parent-child relationships and in close friendships. The award, which included a 6,000-pound prize, about $12,000, is billed as the largest award for applied psychology in Europe.
Writer: Debra Diamond Smit
Source: Dr. Brooke Feeney, CMU
Image courtesy of Dr. Brooke Feeny